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Bereavement Service

The Bereavement team offers support to the relatives and friends of people who have died in hospital.

We wish to offer our sincere sympathy to you, your family and friends in your bereavement.

Bereavement is a time of grief and sorrow – this is a natural and normal part of your loss. It is also unfortunately a period during which a number of matters must be dealt with. All of this can prove bewildering and stressful and we hope this information will help and assist you during this difficult time.

It may be possible to view your relative before they leave the ward. However, after this we would encourage you to wait until they are at the funeral directors. We can arrange a viewing at the hospital in certain circumstances.

The Trust has a team of bereavement officers, who can give you help and information and can arrange for you to see the doctor who was looking after your relative to help answer any questions you may have.

The Department of Work and Pensions leaflet DWP1027 'What to do after a death' gives comprehensive advice and details about the formalities involved. The leaflet can be downloaded by clicking on the link above or a hard copy can be picked up from the leaflet racks on Level 2, Main Entrance of the Royal Berkshire Hospital, from the Bereavement Office or from your local Department of Work and Pensions.

What happens to the deceased?

The body of the person who has died will be taken to the hospital mortuary, until it is released to the appointed funeral director.

Personal belongings

If you are in the hospital when your relative or friend dies, the nursing staff will return all belongings to you before you leave the hospital, or if you prefer, you can arrange another time for a family member or next of kin to collect them from the Bereavement Office. This includes any valuables that have been taken into safekeeping.

What happens next?

Contact the Bereavement Office on 0118 322 7059 after 9am the following morning.

Contact a funeral director – you can do this immediately. You do not need to wait for the medical certificate to be issued.

Bereavement officers

The bereavement officers will arrange an appointment for you to come in and collect the certificate from them, when it is ready. They will try to arrange your appointment at a convenient time and usually on the next working day. If you are worried, you are welcome to telephone them on 0118 322 7059. The Bereavement Office at the Royal Berkshire Hospital is open between 8am and 4pm Monday to Friday. You can leave a message on the answerphone out of hours and they will get back to you as soon as they are available.

The bereavement officers will:

  • ask you whether the deceased is to be buried or cremated so that the relevant paperwork can be organized.
  • provide you with a medical certificate of cause of death.
  • advise you on how to register the death.
  • return any valuables and personal belongings left at the hospital.
  • offer to put you in contact with counsellors, chaplains or other support groups.
  • advise you what to do next.
  • advise you on the possible arrangements for viewing your relative.
  • you will also have the opportunity to ask any questions you may have and to have any items of property returned to you if it has not already been done.

The bereavement officers are based in an office on Level 2, Main Entrance at the Royal Berkshire Hospital – around the corner from the main reception. Please ring the bell of the PALS and Bereavement Office to let the officers know you have arrived. Alternatively, please ask one of the receptionists on the main desk to contact the Office for you.

Death certificate

In most cases, the hospital will give you a medical certificate stating the cause of death. We will endeavour to get this done within 48 hours, although this may take a little longer after weekends and Bank Holidays.

Hospital post mortem examination

Sometimes, the hospital doctor who has written the medical certificate may ask for your permission to carry out a post mortem examination. This can help doctors to understand the reason why the person died and it may help in the treatment of other patients in the future. You will be under no pressure to agree to a hospital post mortem if you do not wish one to be carried out. The doctor will explain what is involved in the examination and will ask you to sign a consent form.

The Coroner

There are certain circumstances when the doctor has to refer the death to the Coroner before they are able to write the certificate. This may cause a delay in issuing the certificate. The Coroner may have to arrange a Coroner's post mortem examination. You will be told that this is happening, but you do not have the right to withhold your consent to the examination in this case. The bereavement officer will arrange for a Coroner's officer to telephone you at home to discuss this process in more detail.

If the post mortem shows that death was due to natural causes, the Coroner will issue a notification to the Registrar, known as the Pink Form (Form 100B) which gives the cause of death so that the death can be registered. If the body is to be cremated, the Coroner will give your chosen funeral director a Certificate for Cremation.

If there is to be an inquest, an Interim Certificate of Fact of Death can be issued by the Coroner. The Coroner will give you further information if this decision is made.

Registering the death

Once you have the medical certificate of cause of death you will have to register the death at the Registrar's Office. The death must be registered within five working days at the Registrar’s Office for the area in which the death occurred.  You will need to make a prior appointment before you go there but please do not make an appointment until the Bereavement Office has informed you that the certificate is ready for collection from them.

If you are unable to get to the Registrar’s Office in this area, you can go to a Registrar in your home town in England or Wales but they will not register the death. The details will be passed on to the Registrar for the area in which your relative died and the certificate will be sent to you by post a few days later. This may cause delays in arranging the funeral.

Information leaflets for friends and relatives

Some of the files here are large - they may take a long time to download if you don't have a fast connection.

To view these PDF documents you will need Adobe Acrobat reader. If you do not have this free software, you can download Acrobat Reader here.

   
pdf logo Simple guide to the post mortem (PM) examination
pdf logo Simple guide to the post mortem (PM) examination of babies and children
pdf logo Caring for your child at home
pdf logo Burial on private land
pdf logo Tissue blocks and slides
pdf logo Return of tissue in formaldehyde
pdf logo What happens to blood and tissue samples taken during treatment?

 

Contact us

Patient Relations Team
Level 2 Main Entrance
Royal Berkshire NHS Foundation Trust
London Road
Reading
RG1 5AN

0118 322 8338